2nd Year of our marriage

24 June marked the 2^nd year of my wedding with Jin. It has been a full wonderful year of blessing especially with having our precious little Maximus. As I reflected, my 1^st year anniversary, I was about 3 months expecting little Maximus and now we have 7 months little Maximus with us. God has given me the best... a wonderful husband and a son. I am really thankful that we are able to have our 2^nd year and surely many more years to celebrate.

This year we have a simple yet memorable celebration. We celebrated with "Transformers"... hahaha... it's the opening of the Transformers 2 movie. So Jin and I watched that movie and have our "little dinner" (1901 hotdog) in the cinema. We celebrated our anniversary in the cinema!!! It's cool... but as usual I was missing and thinking about Maximus, especially when it was close to his sleeping time. But he was fine since all his cousins were around till 8 plus that night accompanying him and playing with him. When I reached home at 10:30 pm, he was solemn because he wanted to be breastfed.

This 2^nd year of marriage made me analysed myself being a wife and a mother. I realised that I was not a good wife especially since I have Maximus. I do love and care for Jin very much but with Maximus I sort of abandon him... I forgot how to be a wife since I became a mother. Sadly but gladly I did realise it... So while waiting to go into the cinema, I have the opportunity to talk to Jin about it...and his respond was just a giggle! Well, I guess that's the way how my hubby shows agreement...

It's always best to keep the balance - a wife and a mother. I am still learning... from mistakes, experiences and elderly people. So as long as I have the opportunity to reflect and analysed myself, I am sure I can strike a balance to the both roles. It's only my 2nd... I have a long way to go till I am statisfied and contented with the both roles. I am sure I will do better...